Friendship, Negotiating Tactics, Negotiation, The Master Negotiator
3 Keys to Achieving a Win-Win Outcome
Have you ever walked away from a negotiation thinking, “I will never do business with this person again!” If so, you probably felt like you lost big time. Although great negotiators drive a hard bargain,…
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Negotiation Tactic #97 – Scrambled Eggs
Summary: Providing the final terms of the negotiation only to change them last minute. A counterpart might use the Scrambled Eggs tactic to confuse you and your decision-making process. Sometimes facts and figures are used;…
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Negotiation Tactic #96 – Go Easy on Me
Summary: Asking your counterpart for leniency before making their first offer. There are times when you want the best available product or service but do not want to pay the price that the top products…
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Negotiation Tactic #94 – You’ve Pushed Me Over the Edge
Summary: Giving up all direct communication with a counterpart. This tactic is reserved for the most difficult counterparts, when all other viable strategies have been exhausted. Once in a lifetime you are “blessed” with a…
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Negotiation Tactic #93 – Establishing Rapport
Summary: Getting to know your counterpart to establish a mutual trust. Although sharks would debate the value of this tactic, being nice and friendly helps build relationships. A counterpart is much more willing to work…
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Negotiation Tactic #92 – One Foot on the Dock
Summary: Increasing penalties if the counterpart does not make a decision. This tactic, which is similar to No More Mr. Nice Guy, is useful when a counterpart starts making unreasonable demands or causing excessive delays…
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Negotiation Tactic #90 – The Field Trip
Summary: Arranging for a counterpart to visit one’s site or the site of another customer. Any time you can get your counterpart to leave her office and visit your site or the operation/installation of one…
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Negotiation Tactic #89 – The Ambush
Summary: Outnumbering the opposition. Showing up to a negotiation unexpectedly and in large numbers can have tremendous impact. Example A developer goes before the city council to try to get approval for a project. Much…
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Negotiation Tactic #88 – Pulling on Your Heartstrings
Summary: Using the power of the relationship with the counterpart to get concessions. Once in a while you may want to remind your counterpart of your long-term relationship or provide some specific details about your…
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Negotiation Tactic #87 – Setting a Time Limit
Summary: Imposing a time limit for making a decision. At any time during a negotiation, either party may Set a Time Limit on agreeing to a particular deal point. But remember, you don’t have to…
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