Negotiation Tactic #64 – Fait Accompli-Asking for Forgiveness

Summary: Taking action first, asking for forgiveness later.

Fait Accompli is a tactic described by Gerard I. Nierenberg. The phrase is French for “accomplished fact,” and refers to a deed that is already done-and is therefore irreversible. You employ this tactic when you do something without first negotiating it. Then, when you get caught, you respond to any questions with something like, “Who, me? I didn’t know I wasn’t supposed to be doing that. I apologize. I will not do it any more.”


Your neighbors’ trees are hanging over your property and you are tired of raking up the leaves. Instead of making a big deal and asking your neighbors to cut the trees back to the property line, you decide to trim them yourself. Your neighbors become incensed that you have cut their trees without asking. You reply simply that you thought you were doing the right thing by not bothering them, and you apologize for your actions.


The reason this tactic is so powerful is that there are few tactics to counter it. What is done, is done. About the only thing the neighbors can do is stop future progress. For example, if you are still cutting the trees, the neighbors could ask you to stop, saying they will hire a professional to trim their own trees. Putting the process on hold puts them in a better position to enforce future action. They could also use The Safeguard tactic to guide the future relationship, asking you to agree that you will never cut the trees again without first getting their permission.

Have you used or encountered this tactic in your negotiations? If so, how’d it go?

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